Jamiezan's Blog

its sooo long since I last penned here.. a lot of stuffs and assignments have been circling around in my life.  Time is ticking away ignoring my pleas, exam is in a month time, arming with 4 undone assignments under my belt. So life is getting more hectic… haha but Praise the Lord, as he has been blessing me with reasonable grades for my passed assignments and i hope for the best for the rest and my exam!!

Not only school’s stuffs, housing stuffs are bothering me too.. PTL i think we made a decision and hope it is sound and fine for all of us. I am not going into details here.. probably it is not the best decision but I pray everything would be in God’s almighty hands.

Just one tiny tots: Word is really mightier than sword and have a taste of it  and had seen how a heart can be pierce by the word. I am not trying to be righteous here but but but…. although i can understand the reason why the other party is quite frustrated, however, it is definitely not as easy as it seems for some ppl to make a sound or firm decision as there are too many factors that are actually unknown to you, and what you know is the tip of an ice-berg that is shown and what about those that is not shown. So.. slow to comment unless you fully understand the situation cos what its seem it might not be. I think giving time to allow the person to think if  time permits should be fine and might result to a better solution.

Hmm of cos for the indecision one- sometimes no matter how you think and consider, you might not reach a win-win situation so got to learn to let go, as sitting on the fence is a decision too and you might miss a great opportunity when u r not fast enough to catch it. Moreover, ppl can be impatient too, cant expect them to keep waiting and waiting ba…

Hope everything would be fine with the decision…. 😛

While i was walking back from school a couple of moments ago, a DreaM just bang into my head haha. It is an issue that I had been thinking for a few months but I didn’t go along the track that just came as a revelation to me. In retrospect, I realise the dream that I dreamt last time was a tiny little one as compared to this. Sorry peepz, I can’t reveal it here haha but people if u are thinking along the track of me going to break my bond, its wrong!!! Plus, I will definitely be back to fulfil my duties in SGH cos no money to break bond!! It is jUst a God sent moment to me and Bang!! I had straighten my thoughts and I truly know what I really want and going to do!

haha, Just want to thank Jesus for giving me the Dream and the courage haha! Needed Huge leaps of Faith, hmmm I seriously not sure I can obtain this dream of mine but I will PRAY & PRaY & PRaY for a path!

Phil 3:13b-14

Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which GOd, through Christ Jesus, is calling Us.

So people, I just want to encourage all of you to dream a BIG dream, as I know ”  For I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” Phil 4:13        And of Cos have Faith in GOd and Urself!!

Phil 4:6

Don’t worry about anything; instead, PRAY about Everything. Tell GOd what you need and Thank Him for ALL he has Done.

AmeN and Praise the LOrd! Hope these verses can enable YOU to dream a dream… and not just a dream but A BIG DREAM!

I just realise there is a earthquake today in the western part of australia when my uncle sms me this late afternoon… haha Thanks Uncle for ur concern and I am safe in Brisbane hehe 😛 Surprise to receive ur sms too.

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/article7102379.ece

see webby for details of the earthquake.

I learnt this a couple years ago in church, however, it seems more practical to me now as I am married and we separated now by nearly 8 hrs of flight. I think it really helps our bonding and increase our love for each other.  Hope this help to build ur bonds with ur love ones too (include parents, siblings, friends) 😛

5 languages of Love is written by Dr Gary Chapman (30 yrs of experience as a marriage counsellor)

Adapted from http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/

1. Words of Affirmation

Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

2. Quality Time

In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there makes your significant other feel truly special and loved.

(* for my situation, I use skype to spend quality with my hubby- hope he feel loved haha)

3. Receiving Gifts

Its not to promote materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you.

4. Acts of Service

Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

(* Dear I like this hehe and I appreciate all the efforts that u put in for our house!! Moreover, the recent action of going there (U know wat i mean) makes me feel soooo Loved as well. Thanks!!)

5. Physical Touch

This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.

So people, Identify ur love ones Love languages and I prayed that by using the Love languages, ur bond wif  them would increased. Hopes This sharing helps.

Can u imagine while showering, I saw Charlotte right in front of me!!! Its Scare the wit out of me and I jumped out of the shower place swiftly. I tried to scare the red charlotte away by spraying water on it so it went back to the ceiling … while it is back onto the ceiling, I just quickly get rid off the remaining soap on me and out I go to seek help…

Basically, Stupid charlotte came down again and Kevin killed it hehe! … Of cos Wilbur is not here so charlotte and its web die in kevin’s hand…  What an Interesting shower I had 😛

I am happy that God answer my prayer… hehe PTL!! and i wan to thank my Hubby too 🙂 Loveeee u sooo muz hehe!!

I would like to share the Word of God tat reflected my feelings right now and I hope U guys would be encourage as well if u are facing some situations. Lets Us be like King David in Psalm 😛

Psalm 34 especially from verse 4 to 6 :

vs 4: I prayed to the LORd, and he answered me. He freed me from ALL my Fears.

vs 5: Those who look to HIM for help will be radiant with Joy; no shadows of shame will darken their faces.

vs 6: In my desperation, I prayed, and the LORD listened; he saved me from all my troubles. 🙂

(***Dear.. I am sooo happy that GOD listens to our prayer and he will deliver to us.) People, if u are facing situations right now, keep on praying cos God listens.

Moreover, today church service is really good, esp the sermons. I am really encourage by the Word of God! One of Tiny tots is Who we are is equal to what we think of ourselves!! OUR thought in our mind actually matters and the negative one would affects our life too! In Short…

2Timothy1:7

For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love and self discipline.

Hope all these helps 😛

Its saturday again, as usual sat morning is dedicated to West End market grocery shopping.

But something caught my attention just now in one of the fruits store, its Rosella… I saw my friend XY drank Rosella tea in a thai restaurant before. Out of curiosity, I ask the store owner who happens to be a taiwanese auntie how to cook Rosella tea…so she taught us how… bascially just add water to the rosella and boil it for about 10mins and voILa its Rosella tea… add Honey or sugar if U wan :P..In the end, I bought about 10 little rosella and i am going to try later 🙂  

When I google about Rosella, I realise it has certain therapeutic properties and reported benefits of using it internally.

Some of the benefits are:

• soothes colds
• open blocked nose
• help to reduce fever
• promote digestion
• promote proper kidney function …… haha hope the drink its nice 😛 and i will update later when i make it. 
  

its fri today… hmm i dun really like fri cos it means the week is ending soon.. and date dues of my multiple assignments are drawing near… haha still got a foot away from the edge of the cliff… I am a person who work best in stress.. so normally will start embarking the journey of my writing at the edge of the cliff haha. NOw no stress le.. cant function well…

Btw just receive a wonderful piece of new from my bro, he got into the PHD scholarship that he applied. CongraTsss.. haha that means i dun need to give u money hehe cos u are richer than me liao!! Mama Papa wait for u to buy bungalow liao !!! Anyway I still hope u will embark ur PHD in USA not singapore le… I think its better.. so Jiayou! Hmm should i do my PHD also???

was surprise and touched by a fren’s blog. Didn’t know that she had gone through a lot and still holding on to what she believes. I truly respected her determination and her courage, and of cos I prayed that her family and her life would be better. JiaYOU M!

its not about my LOve affair.. its someone that i know.. Just realise this person has been two-timed someone that i met briefly..

When I was reading the innocent lady’s ( i suppose that she dunno that she is the 3rd party) blog, I felt so sorry for her. As the happiness that she is experiencing now might turn into anger and great disappointment later. Not only that, I felt soooo angry for the original galfren. That cheated kind of feeling just flow into my heart when i was browsing through the photos of the new couple in the blog. From her blog, i am able to spot some lies that the guy told this innocent lady… oh gosh.. and she believe him… I was soooo tempted to type an anonymous comment at that point of time.

Y do some guys want to cheat the girlfriend or two-timed??

My galfren and I reach a conclusion but not sure is it true…

THe answer is greed!